Life's biggies are not that hot

OK so think about the milestones in your life. The big ones I mean. Being born, graduating, your first car, getting married, buying a home, having kids, retiring, moving into a rest home and then passing....whoops.....what did you just say? Kicking the bucket you say. Now that must be the grandaddy of all biggies. If anything counts that must be it right? Naaaaaaaaa....I don't think so. Like you think about these biggies your whole life and then when they come along they are not all that big. So why should dying be all that different. It isn't that big a deal. What is a big deal is all that living stuff that you do. Watching a funny movie. Going somewhere to visit. Eating a ripe banana. (Ha ha) Achieving a goal. They are the biggies!